Schools ask ‘helicopter parents’ to stop complaining

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More and more parents are showing up at schools to complain when their child is reprimanded or has received a punishment – to the detriment of a teacher’s authority, says one network head

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Lieven Boeve, head of the Catholic education network, has called on parents to be careful about undermining teachers’ authority in the classroom. An increasing number of parents are approaching the school or teacher when their child complains about a rebuke or punishment.

Education expert Pedro De Bruyckere of Artevelde University College in Ghent started the discussion a few days ago when he tweeted a BBC article in which a school principal said that pupils text parents when they are reprimanded.

De Bruyckere received dozens of reactions, including from Ann Dejaegher, the principal of an Ypres school where pupils are allowed to use their smartphones during breaks. “I get into a situation where the mum is already standing at my door before I’m even informed about the incident”, she told Mediahuis newspapers.

She used the term ‘helicopter parents’ – parents who are constantly circling around their children to protect them and often refusing to accept the sanction given to the child.

In a statement, Boeve has asked parents “not to enter conflict mode when their child is sanctioned.” Also, he said “parents should be on the same side as teachers and have more trust in the teacher’s authority. When they do have questions about a sanction, they can calmly turn to the school.”

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The Flemish educational system is divided into two levels: primary (age six to 12) and secondary school (12 to 18). Education is compulsory for children between the ages of six and 18.
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